This is Pinky. She's been a member of our household for a couple of years and has pretty much laid low. But in the past ten months or so, she's been around a bit more and we've gotten to know her better. Pinky has some issues, some special ways about her, that I'd like to share with you.
First of all, Pinky is a charmer. She's sweet and little and pink, with heavenly blue twinkling starry eyes. Her tiny little paws have itty bitty toes that make you just want to tickle them. She loves it when the kids play with her. In fact, she loves it so much that she makes them want her all to themselves. She begs them to want her. She lures them in with her charm and promise of fun, to the point that their desire for her overcomes their love for one another. In general Merrilee, Katie Mei, and Jacob don't argue or fight. But when Pinky comes out, their desire for her becomes so intense that they are willing to hurt one another and put aside all feelings of filial affection, just to hold her precious plastic pink perfection in the palms of their hands. She's special that way.
The other thing that is so special about Pinky is that she is so, well, Pink. She's pink and clean. She's perfect that way. So nice and pretty. She's dressed up so nice. Just look at her. Those big beautiful starry eyes, that perky little pink nose, that luscious fluffy plastic tail that just screams Perfect Hair Day everyday! Don't we all wish we could be so "blessed" with all the perfection of Pinky.

And Pinky makes promises. She promises that the one who holds her holds happiness. Isn't that amazing?! Yes, Pinky truly offers to deliver joy to the person who gets his or her hands on her first. The One with Pinky is The One with the key to Perfect Playtime! Woe to the one who does not lay claim to Pinky first. Pinky's promise is only for the lucky one who warms her pink plastic flesh in his or her hands. Is it any wonder that in the rush to grab Pinky all personal morals, standards of Christian behavior, and finely tuned character traits go right out the window? For Goodness Sakes, we can't waste time being kind to one another when there's only one Pinky in the box! You Lose You Snooze...without Pinky! GASP! Pinky knows this. She knows it well.
Well, I want to share something with you. Something that Pinky never wants you, my children, or anyone else to know. It's a secret, and Pinky has been so intent on keeping it hidden that she has fooled my children into believing everything about her is good. I am about to expose Pinky.
PINKY IS AN IDOL!
Pinky is an object of worship!
I think most people only think of idols as those little statues mentioned in the Old Testament that people used to put up on altars. Or maybe they think of that golden calf that Moses had to deal with when the people were left alone for a couple days while he was busy taking care of a few legal matters with God. But I want to let you know that is just not true. Pinky, my dear friends, is a perfect idol.
Do you know what idols really look like? Do you know how God sees them? They look like this:
This is Pinky exposed. (Yes, you may all gasp now, as you see Pinky's true identity). It's not pretty, is it? Pinky is an idol. She's no beautiful pink kitty to God. He sees her in all her true colors. She is an object of worship, and a stench in His nostrils. She is the epitome of what God was referring to when he said "Have no other gods before me." My children were rather horrified to learn this object lesson tonight, but the time had come and they were mature enough to understand it.
There were four main things God taught them (and reminded me of) tonight through Pinky's exposure.
1. When we love something or someone so much that we are willing to sacrifice the good of others and our love of God for that object or person, then that is idol worship. Idol worship is sinful, be it the love of money, another person, family, presenting a "picture perfect" image before others, our obedient children, our jobs, or anything else.
2. 1 Samuel 16:7 "
The Lord does not look
at the things man
looks at. Man
looks at the outward appearance, but
the Lord
looks at the heart." We can all look pretty, clean, dressed up, nice and lovely on the outside, like Pinky, but God sees what's in the heart. If we haven't asked Jesus to forgive our sins and cleanse us, then God sees a pretty bad mess when he looks at us. That bad mess is sin. We're all born with it, whether we want to believe it or not. Which leads us to

3. That was a Sharpie. Yep. It ain't comin' off. The kids found that out the hard way. When a crying Merrilee took Pinky back upstairs to show Katie Mei, I heard that sweet little three-year old voice cry "OH PINKY!!!" And as I crept upstairs quietly, I found them in the bathroom trying to scrub off the marker. What does that have to do with sin? Everything. You cannot wash away your own sin. You can try scrubbing, you can try soaking. You can try being really good. You can give all your money to the food bank. You can take care of sick people and adopt orphans. You can go to church, tithe, and sing in the choir. But sin is like a Sharpie pen. YOU cannot get rid of it. However, there is another way. Another One...Jesus. Only Jesus can take away the sins of the world. Scripture says in Hebrews 9:22 that "without the
shedding of blood there is no forgiveness." Someone has got to pay for those sins. We don't sin and get away with it. But because we are sinful, the shedding of our own blood just doesn't cover it (You can't pay for something with a bad check). Jesus alone was perfect in His obedience; He alone is without sin. And only his own blood is good enough to cover the cost of our sins. So by His death, we can be forgiven. All we need to do is admit we are as besmirched as Pinky; acknowledge our sin and ask Jesus to forgive us. It's that simple. He can do it. We can't. Pinky is one badly besmirched kitty. Like I told the kids, it's going to take the Hand of God reaching down here to do a miracle to get that marker off that toy.
4. And the point I am most thankful for: Jesus loves us, even when we're yucky looking to him. After our discussion regarding all the above points, I asked the kids "Who still wants to play with Pinky, even with all the marker on her?" Katie Mei wanted Pinky, but when I handed the toy to her, she recoiled and said she wanted Pinky all cleaned up. Merrilee said she still loved Pinky but didn't want to play with her anymore. Jacob didn't want her, either. I reminded the kids that Jesus sees all the black marks on us. He sees our heart. He knows how sinful we are. And yet he still wants to hold us in the palm of his hand. He loves us enough to still come close, to hear us pray, and to embrace us despite the Sharpie marks. Romans 5:8 says "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this:
While we were still
sinners, Christ died for us." We don't need to get cleaned up first. God isn't looking for a perfect, plastic, pink version of us. He sees us for who we really are, and he loves us anyway. There is no hiding the truth from God, and there's no reason to try to do so. Would we really want a God who only wants a clean version of us, anyway? Don't you really want to be in a relationship with God who knows all your darkest secrets and loves you no matter what? God Loves You. He's not going to change his mind. He's just waiting for you to climb into his arms.
I know this is not my typical blog post, but this is typical scriptural teaching in our home. And this particular situation was such a wonderful object lesson on so many levels that I didn't want to forget it. And I don't want my kids to forget it. I really did wonder if marking up Pinky would be a bad idea. When the umpteenth argument broke out over that toy today, my initial thought was to twist it's head off and throw it in the trash (I've demolished more than one toy since we've had kids, and twisting heads off is not beyond me. Not that I'm proud of it, but sometimes heads just need twisting!). But something took hold of me after I asked Merrilee to deliver the object of worship to me, and I went straight to the Sharpie in the kitchen pen cup. I do believe the Holy Spirit had a beautiful lesson planned for all of us, and I'm so thankful that the opportunity arose to once again share the Gospel message with my children and with those who read this blog.
Poor Pinky. God tells us in His Word to demolish idols. I consider Pinky demolished. However, she's going to stay around so we can look upon her and be reminded again and again of our need for Jesus.
"Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates, so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land that the Lord swore to give your forefathers, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth." Deuteronomy 11:18-21