This is what Merrilee told our pastor when he asked her what she understood Holy Baptism to be. He spent about an hour with her a couple weeks ago in order to get to know her better and talk to her about her desire to be baptized.
The past two churches in which Jay and I have had membership practice infant baptism. Jay and I do not discount the validity of infant baptism, but our desire is that each of our children will make his or her own decision to place Christ in a position of Lordship over their lives, and will feel the call to public baptism according to the tradition of John who baptized Jesus. In many churches this form of baptism is called baptism "by profession of faith", as opposed to "infant baptism". In none of the churches we've ever attended has either form of baptism ever been a means of salvation; salvation comes through Christ alone. Baptism is not required nor necessary for eternal life, and nowhere in the Bible is the opposite ever true. Baptism by profession of faith is, however, the public proclaimation that one has acknowledged his sinful nature and recognizes his need for the saving grace that only comes through the death and resurrection of Jesus--the only One who can redeem us from our sins and make us righteous in the eyes of God. This is the Baptism we desire for our children; a profession of faith in Jesus before the church and the world.
Merrilee made a genuine decision to accept Christ as her Savior when she was four years old. I remember that precious evening when it happened, and I have never doubted her faith since then. If anything, she has grown stronger and more deliberate in her growth as a Christian. Unfortunately, she was not able to be baptized in our previous church at such a young age outside of infant baptism, so we chose to wait until we were members of a church which would allow her to be baptized by profession of faith. Today we were blessed to have our first child take part in this beautiful and holy sacrament.
As she waited for Mr. Mike to introduce her, she very excitedly grinned and wiggled. I don't think I've ever seen her so, well, wiggly! I whispered to her, asking if she was nervous, and she replied "No, I'm just so excited!" And she truly was; she had been waiting for this day for two and a half years. Then Mr. Mike asked her some standard questions prior to baptizing her. The two of them had discussed the questions earlier, and Merrilee knew she was to answer the questions with a loud "Yes" so the congregation could hear. When Mr. Mike came to the question "Will you live your life in a way that is becoming of a follower of Christ?" (in other words, will you behave as a Christian should behave), she boldly and honestly proclaimed "I will try my very best!" I was so proud of her honesty and candor at that moment. Even the pastor was touched and repeated her answer loudly so the congregation could hear. None of us can truly answer "yes" to such a question, but I would certainly hope each of us would try our very best. We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us!
We look forward to Merrilee's continued sanctification as she grows in her relationship with the Lord. And I eagerly await the day she, herself, shares the Gospel and disciples others in the Faith. To God be the glory, great things He has done!