Sunday, January 31, 2010

Florida trip, revisited

Before the month totally gets away from me, I want to get the photos posted from our trip. So here we go....



We left for Jacksonville, FL after church on Sunday and arrived in the evening just in time for dinner. Jay took us to the Crab Shack, and for dessert we got a "Shack Attack". It was a delicious monstrosity in chocolate. Katie Mei was riveted and eagerly took a big bite out of it sans fork.






Since the desserts were so big, we all shared. Even with three of us (myself included) working on the Shack Attack, we didn't finish the whole thing. Merrilee and Jay were more interested in the Apple Cobbler.











We stayed at the Navy Lodge in Mayport. I love staying there because it's right on the beach. Waking up to the ocean view of the sunrise is my idea of heaven! This is the view from our room.



One of the priorities of the trip was to visit sights we had just read about in history. Merrilee had studied colonial America last year, and her history book covered it again this year. I was getting tired of talking about Christopher Columbus (who didn't discover American anyway), the Mayflower and the Pilgrims, so I shifted gears backwards a bit and we headed into the 1500s to study some Spanish explorers. Since I knew we were heading to northeastern Florida anyway, I decided we'd concentrate on the Native Americans and explorers in that region. So it was very enjoyable to Merrilee to cover the tracks of Juan Ponce de Leon and his search for the Fountain of Youth, and Timucuan Indians who inhabited the area at that time. It was interesting and wonderful to be able to see her excitement at seeing what she had only read about.





Statue of Juan Ponce de Leon at his original landing site.



Donated cannon, not an original, but still exciting to my kids.




Unfortunately not the real thing. We got to take a sip, and it was that lovely sulfur taste...just like our well water in MD!



Visiting a replica of a Timucuan settlement. The blonde woman dressed as an Timucuan didn't really lend an air of authenticity, but she was informative. We learned that they used Spanish moss to make clothing. It had to be smoked over a fire first to kill parasites, then it was woven into garments. It could also be dyed and hung about (as you can see in the photo) for decorations for weddings.





Jacob took a short-lived turn trying to grind some grain corn by hand.




After our visit to the Fountain of Youth, we headed a little further down the road to the Castillo de San Marcos, a fortress to built to protect the city of St. Augustine from the French and British. St. Augustine was burned and destroyed on several occasions and the Castillo served as a place of protection for the citizens.


View of the castle from the road.

Merrilee and Jacob got to talk to a Spanish soldier (red uniform for artillery, and blue for infantry, we learned), and afterwards they marched with the soldiers out of the castle on their way to a musket demonstration.










Finally, the kids went up on top of the castle to see all the cannons and the view from up there. They loved it!




In the evening we enjoyed the hospitality of friends who were in China with us on our first trip. Their daughter is from the same place Merrilee is from, and it was such a joy to have this reunion with them. The next day we met them at the Museum of Science and History and had a wonderful time. The museum was very interesting and afterwards we were blessed with lovely weather for a picnic on the river.









We went back to the beach at the Navy Lodge next day, and the kids got their kites out. It was a bit chilly with the wind blowing off the water, but that didn't deter them!




Jacob lost his kite string and had to wait until Merrilee was done with her kite flying so he could use her string.




Merrilee really got into her kite flying and I got some beautiful photos of her. She's growing up too fast!



Katie Mei took a turn flying her kite, but she wasn't that thrilled with it. She was more interested in the beach. I let her take her shoes off, despite the chilly sand and water, just so she could have the experience.



One of my favorite times was watching the incoming ships. I am always amazed at how much larger they are when they get in close! They move fast, too. The kids and I had no idea how quickly one could come in when we were running toward the other end of the beach to see it.

It was a lovely little edu-vacation, and despite being in a hotel room for four nights with the kids, it was a nice break. One of the things I have learned with having kids is that there's really no true vacation for me. I still have to get them up, dressed, fed, and continue to train, educate and discipline them. I was weary by the second night. But I am truly thankful we got to go with Jay on the trip, and I look forward to the next time I can get a little road time. I think we're going to plan a little trip to visit Grandma and Grandpa real soon! G & G kick in a little with the parenting so I have a bit more time to relax and enjoy myself. Hope they don't mind some company in the near future!



Friday, January 29, 2010

Can you spell n-e-r-v-o-u-s m-o-m?


We came home from our short trip to Florida yesterday so Merrilee could participate in a Spelling Bee with the Homeschool Association today. This was her first Spelling Bee, and my first as well. I was excited about having Merrilee participate in it, but it was for fun and not one of those serious ones where you're out of the game if you spell a word wrong. She competed with the first and second graders, and they were awarded points for correctly spelled words according to their grade level. I have to insert here that Merrilee is six years old and in second grade; she was ready for school early, so she's the youngest in her grade.


There was only one other second grader, and Jaylan was stiff competition. I couldn't believe how nervous I got for all the kids, and as much as I wanted Merrilee to win (we did work hard studying!), I really didn't want to see any other kids lose! I think the Bee was much tougher on me than on Merrilee! And as much as I kept telling Merrilee that it was enjoying the Bee that counted and she shouldn't be too upset if she didn't win, I was quite a bundle of nerves when it came down to the latter part of the competition

It was a tie after more than half an hour of spelling. So the judges upped the ante by using words off the third grade list. The first word was "been" and Merrilee spelled it wrong. Then Jaylan had to spell it and also spelled it wrong. After continuing, and correctly spelling "thought", "subtraction", and finally "cracker", Merrilee took the prize! I was so happy for her, but just hated to see Jaylan lose. How on earth can parents do those cut-throat competitions with their kids?! I would never make it as a beauty pageant mom. I just cannot stand another kid losing!

Anyway, it was a very special time for Merrilee and we are all very proud of her. We called Dad right away to tell him the news (actually I sent him a text message during the ribbon ceremony--I couldn't wait!). Then we came home and Skyped Grandma and Grandpa. It was big news around here! Dad asked her what she wanted for her celebration dinner, and after initially wanting to go out for Chinese, she changed her mind, so we're having Fettucini Alfredo tonight.

Here are some photo highlights from the afternoon.
Waiting for the Bee to start...a bit nervous!

Getting the Certificate of Participation after the Bee; she still didn't know she had won.
Receiving her award ribbon in the post-Bee ceremony.

With the other winners from each grade level.

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

scenes from the beach I

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scenes from the beach II

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Scenes from thea beach III

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Monday, January 25, 2010

Out of Albany for the first time!

Waking up to the sound of surf and smell of the ocean. Aaaaah...much needed break. We are off to visit St. Augustine after studying Spanish explorers.

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Saturday, January 23, 2010

New attempt to link up my cell phone with my blog. Not as easy as it looks.

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Thursday, January 21, 2010

Violation of Child Labor Laws, or some such nonsense

Tonight Jay asked me why I haven't blogged this week. You'd think the man who lives in the same house with me and the kids wouldn't need to read the blog to find out what's going on, but apparently he's that out of touch. So I am going to take a moment to directly address my dear husband.


Jay, you know I'm a busy woman. I'm teaching your dear little children, raising them in the admonition of the Lord. I'm hauling everyone around to appointments and library time, and buying the groceries. I'm trying to make three meals a day, and cleaning up after you and your little Munchkins. And since I'm just sooooooooo busy, you know I need some help. So I've decided to enlist the one kid who doesn't contribute much. She isn't in school yet and she's got the free time, so I'm putting her to work. She needs to start pulling her own weight around here anyway, so maybe I can get back to blogging and surfing the net in my free time.





So far she's worked out pretty well. Hopefully she can get the laundry mastered soon, and then I might be able to start her on vacuuming and doing dishes.





Only problem is, she's lazy. That darned kid just stops in the middle of a job, asks for cheese sticks and Gramma Crackers, and then falls asleep! I'm not paying her a penny for such a lousy work ethic.


Now if I could just keep her awake so she'd work longer hours and wouldn't require so many snack breaks, I might be able to update this blog sooner!

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Happy Adoption Day, Katie Mei!

Today marks the first anniversary of the day Katie Mei became our daughter. It was such a nerve-wracking morning for me. We had to get up very early for a 5:30 am bus ride and flight to Nanchang, and I was near nauseaus with concern about her health. I kept thinking how this was the day that my life was really going to change--I was going to become the mother of a child with a special need that could never be cured. A child with a broken heart which could ultimately break mine. We had so many unknowns ahead of us, and I remember praying continually the night before that flight and all during the flight that God would keep His hand on her and keep her healthy enough for the trip home. When we boarded our flight, the moon was up and the sky was a beautiful pink. Pink. A color we would come to appreciate so much in the future.




After settling into our hotel room and getting ourselves rested, we went to the civil affairs office at 3:15 pm. There was only one other family with us that day, and we both met our daughters at the same time. A nanny brought in Hui Qi, our Caroline Mei, all bundled up in a yellow coat and winter pants and about three layers of clothing under that. She was a quiet child with serious eyes, who just stood there as her nanny spoke to her, listening intently, staring at me as I squatted on the floor in front of her. I would love to know what the nanny said. I tried speaking to her and just held my hands out to her. After a few moments of checking me out, Caroline Mei leaned into me and my heart just melted. I knew I was in love, and would do anything in the world to protect and care for this child.







Everything after that is history. Caroline Mei has become affectionately known as Katie Mei, and she has become the love of our lives. She endured her open heart surgery with some difficulty and complications, but is now doing amazingly well. She is a funny, happy child who loves to pick on her older brother, imitate her sister, and live life with gusto. She is quiet around strangers but really opens up and lets loose when she's comfortable. She's got a strong will and fears little. She is affectionate, yet stubborn; shy, yet hilarious. We absolutely love her and are grateful for every day we have with her.






Katie Mei, you are a testimony to God's goodness, and the power of prayer. I love you, and the laughter and joy you bring to our family each day. God bless you and keep you, my darling!




Love,
Mommy

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Wii love her!

This one is for Grandma and Baba, who gave us a Wii for Christmas. Katie Mei is our little Wii monster; she asks to play it at least twice a day and gets so excited when we let her. Tonight I got a little video of her playing the cow-racing game. Towards the end you can hear her telling her cow to get back on the road, not on the grass. Her's is the rider in red at the bottom of the TV screen.


Monday, January 4, 2010

No Post-Christmas Blues Here!

We had a beautiful first Christmas with our new daughter in our new home this year. It was a fun day, with a slow process of opening stockings, taking a break for breakfast, and opening presents. Our kids don't mind taking it slow and savoring the morning, which makes it even nicer for Jay and I. I don't think we were done until around 11 am!


The day after Christmas Jay finally decided it would be okay to lay out some extra funds and order that swingset we've all been waiting for. The kids were probably more patient that I was about it, since I've been begging for one since we left Maryland. So I ordered it on the 26th from Amazon.com and they said it would be shipped out around the 29th and arrive after January 4th. Well, we got a call the morning of the 30th that it was on the truck and the driver wanted directions to our house to drop it off! I couldn't believe how fast it was, and that was with Super Saver shipping: FREE!


Jay came home from work early that day to meet the driver and help out, and then he began to put it together. The first day was just the frame for the deck, then he added the arm for the swings and floored the deck, and slowly, the swingset has taken shape. It's beautiful, and the kids love it! Today was our first day back to school, and it was a joy to have recess outside on a swingset!



Katie Mei really thinks the swing is great, since she's big enough now to hang on and enjoy the ride on a big kid swing. The slide was a little too fast for her and her little bottom still remembers the impact with the ground, so she tends to avoid that now unless someone holds her hand on the way down.


Enjoy the photos and video~

The kids didn't know we ordered a swingset, so they were surprised to see what was in the box.


Once Jay got the basic frame up, the girls couldn't wait to swing.

Katie Mei practiced her belly swinging... And apparently she was out of practice. Thankfully the flop on her belly didn't hurt her sternum! I think she was having too much fun to feel any pain.

The girls got down to business swinging right away.

And, of course, Jacob thoroughly enjoyed the box~


Even in 40-degree temps, Daddy can conquer any project if he has some hot coffee!


Our beautiful blue Georgia sky, with the mistletoe in the pecan trees.

Breaking in the slide...and her butt!

Katie Mei's first attempt to be like her big sister on the trapeze.